Thursday, August 9, 2012

Transitioning My Hair...



I sort of fell into going natural.  How did I do that you ask?! Well I was trying to re-train my hair from going to having perms/relaxers every 2 months to only having perms/relaxers twice a year.  Going natural isn't easy and I'm trying to resist the creamy crack. Right now I'm 8 months in the natural game.  I have had kinky twist and sengalese twist this year...this is to keep my hands out of my head before I try to put the creamy crack back in my hair.



I  know the big thing about going natural is the grade of hair you have...what natural people call that type of grade of hair beautiful, society might call it nappy or a good grade.  I fell into the good grade of hair or even that "Louisiana" hair...whatever that means?! lol I guess since I'm starting up my blogging again...I will track my journey of going NATURAL!


For me, before this journey I tried to learn the tricks of having health hair.  I really stop using heat in my hair...barely blow dried my hair but let it air dry...only used the curling iron or flat iron when it was necessary and I wrapped my hair.  If I wanted curls I either used rod set rollers or curled it...depending on where and how long I had to get ready.  I recommend anyone that is looking for a good shampoo and conditioner even if they aren't going natural is Garnier Fructis...this is the shampoo and conditioner that was NOT harsh on my hair.  I could tell the difference if I used another brand versus Garnier.

Anywho, the last time I had a perm/relaxer was December 20, 2011...I've tried to come up with different styles to wear to work, going out and just plain hanging out with my son.  In between having kinky twist and sengalese twist, I have tried bantu knots and rod curlers.  Once I take out my sengalese twist, I'm going to try the flat twist and the flex rod curlers...just to see which one I liked the best.  I will definitely keep everyone posted on my transitioning from relaxed to natural hair.



Saturday, August 4, 2012

It's been awhile...



I know it's been a while since the last time I blogged...a lot has happened since then.  I moved back to Houston from Dallas/Ft. Worth back in December 2010.  The guy that I gave a chance...well we lasted 9 mths...that's some drama that I won't get into but let's just say you can never put anything past anyone!
Smokey (Xterra) died on me...transmission went out...now I'm the proud owner of Smokey Jr. (Camry)!


Since things ended a year ago with the guy I met my birthday weekend in 2010...I basically kinda gave up on love, relationships and just men in general. Every time I thought a "good" guy came along they proved me wrong and let me know they were the guys that I wanted to stay away from.  But I joined a dating site (yes, me a dating site, I know right?!), most of the guys came across as the same as I've dealt with already. With the exception of one guy, that came at me in a manner that intrigued me.  I just think to myself, where has he been hiding and why on earth is he single?! LOL


Up to date...let's see I'll be 30 this year which I will definitely embrace and leave all the drama, confusion and craziness in my 20's.  I have enjoyed my  20's and also have learned a lot of who I am as a person, woman, mother, friend and lover.  I care a lot with my heart but I have walls that mask it, since I don't trust my heart to lead me. Everyday I try to trust my heart more than the last day.


As far as the guy that I met on the dating site, we're growing and learning more about each other everyday.  All I can do is trust God to lead our footsteps in the right direction. Within the year of getting to know each other, there's been trials and tribulations that I think most females would be like forget it and walk away. I care a lot about him and hopefully this leads to more in the future.


To kick off embracing my 30's, a group of friends and some family went to Montego Bay, Jamaica...I love nature and everything God has created.  The scenery was beautiful...I wish I had a vacation home or timeshare. Waking up to the picture below was awesome, I didn't want to come back to the USA.  I definitely enjoyed myself and I plan on going back. Hopefully this time with a significant other.


"LIFE is about trusting our feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness,appreciating the memories and learning from the PAST!"